Dear Carver,

Happy 4th Birthday to my little baby, Carver! You are my unicorn child. I haven’t done a milestone update for you in awhile so here goes: You are now tall enough to ride at least one of the roller coasters at Disneyland. When daddy comes back, that’s the first thing we’re going to do. Maybe you’ll be tall enough to ride two roller coasters by that time. You don’t like to eat meat. You love vegetables and Natto (you have weird taste buds). You are starting to sound out words and read them. You’re pretty good at math, for your age. In some cases, you’re better at math than your brother. You have great emotional intelligence. You’re kind. You share. And you try to be friendly and agreeable to what others want, without compromising what you want.

What you need to work on: Your stage fright.