Dear Lincoln and Carver,

The two of you was finally able to meet. Carver was born on November 16th at 3:32am via C-Section. 6 pounds and 6 ounces, 18 inches.

Right off the bat, Lincoln, you were so nice to Carver. You gave him little head hugs and was very happy to see him. The only thing is that you’re sick so we’re trying to limit the amount of time you have with him. I think this makes you very sad and confused because I’m always off feeding him.

There was a lot that I wanted to write to you, Lincoln, before Carver came into the world. However, I just want to let you know I’m not sure how you feel, confused? Sad? But I promise things will get better and I will be able to spend more time with you. We’ll do more Thursday outings and once you get better, you can play with your brother. One thing I hope is that you keep your happy and playful demeanor. You’ve been acting up a little recently, I’m not sure if it’s because you are sick or because you’re entering your “terrible twos” a bit early, or if it’s because of your new brother. I just hope this is for a short time.

Carver, you are the most perfect baby. I really couldn’t have asked for more. In just a few days, you are much more alert and sleeping at longer intervals. You love skin to skin with daddy. In fact, I think we created a bad habit in which you really like it when someone is right next to you, skin to skin. You like looking around. But most importantly, you are starting to like your sleep. I hope this continues for awhile.

I can’t wait to see the two of you interact with each other. Play with each other and love each other.